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Dealing with this
issue of (s, i, n)
Okay, you are a
Christian. Yet we have this “sin thing” that is still an issue for each of
us…we just try to hide it from other Christians. Maybe we can overcome this
thing through our own efforts. Ha!
Sin “Management”
When we try to manage
our sin through willpower, the process looks something like this:
Sin. . . confess.. do better for a while, then sin again. Embarrassment,
confess again, ask God to take away the desire, then sin again, confess
again, sin again, confess again, shock, more determination to stop sinning,
think about it a lot, examine it. Make promises, create some boundaries, and
sin again, now even worse than before. Despair, anger, shame, distance from
God, guilt. Self-condemnation, self-loathing…sin again. Disillusionment,
doubt, self -pity; resentment at God: Why doesn’t He hear my prayers?
Why doesn’t he do something? More anger. Then fear that we allow
ourselves to get angry with God. Then real confession, a heartfelt
one, and a sense of cleansing. Ah, a new start. Things seem better. Yeah,
I’ve finally got this sin under control. Oops, sin again. Desperate
efforts, bargains struck. Once-and-for-all healing, Really mean it this
time. Sin again. Lose hope, give up, rationalize, minimize, blame, pull
away, hide, judge others, put on a mask, go past the sin again, and so on.
This scenario, in
varying degrees, depicts the pattern many Christians live out all their
lives. This roller coaster ride has no happy ending. It only causes us to
feel beaten down, to compromise our integrity, to feel cynical about this
second-class life we lead.
Worse, a sin
management system shuts off the only resource that can deal with sin:
our trust in who God says we are, attracting the power of his
grace.
Confession Is Limited
Confession does not
resolve our sin either. To be sure, admitting our sin is an important part of
the process—but words do not resolve sin. We can be sorry for
something we have done wrong, and even confess it, and still desire to
continue doing it. Agreeing that we have done something wrong is not the
same as trusting God with what we have done. Sin is resolved when we are
cleansed of it, and only dependence upon the cross of Jesus cleanses us from
sin. There is power there.
How does grace make
repentance a gift for us—a gift that actually resolves our sin issues?
Grace Empowered
Repentance
When grace introduces
us to repentance, the two of us become best friends. When anything else
introduces us to repentance, it feels like the warden has come to lock us up.
But when grace gets involved, the truths of repentance reveal a fabulous
world of life-freeing beauty.
Repentance is about
trusting, not willing!
from the book
TrueFaced
by Thrall, McNicol, &
Lynch
submitted by Paul
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